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If we understand how we got to the unfavorable destination we are in, then we can trace our steps back. If we know how we got to the favorable destination we are in, then we can decipher how to stay there or go even higher. As a certified Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner and Motivational Coach, I am always looking to helping people answer tough questions about relationships, leadership, communication, personal growth, motivation, and faith. You’re in for a good thing. I hope that you meet that better version of yourself here.

Every Unmarried Christian (and even Newlyweds) Must LEARN, HEAL & DEAL With These 6 Critical Areas ASAP

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So in the last article, I mentioned that unmarried Christians underestimate ONE thing before marriage…and many pay dearly for it.
THATS.NOT.COMPLETELY.TRUE.
In actuality, most unmarried Christians underestimate SIX CRITICAL AREAS and the repercussions are immense.

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Unmarried Christians Underestimate This ONE Thing Before Marriage…and Many Pay Dearly For it

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You know what? Unmarried Christians (and even Newlyweds) are actually trying really hard to get as much information as possible about this marriage thing. They are attending relationship events and conferences, they are reading books, listening to podcasts, and eating up relationship videos on YouTube. Many Christian singles are putting in the effort and many churches are doing their best to meet the demand by putting these types of events together. I travel quite a bit to speak at these events and get to see firsthand the desire of unmarried Christians and even Newlyweds to be educated on the matter and I can tell you that we need to continue to have them. But there is a HUGE problem here… Read more

When You Ask Her Out (Or Propose) and She Says She is not Ready

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So I’ve gotten this question from a couple of readers and decided it was time to write about it.

This is a highly stressful situation.

You’ve thought it through it and you’ve weighed the pros and cons. You have a pretty good feeling about it and so you pop the question and ask her to “take it to the next” level (whatever that is) and then she hits you with perhaps the worst possible reply a guy can get: “I’m not ready”

You stand there in shock. First of all…what does “not ready” even mean?
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Your Relationship List and its Unintended Consequences

your-relationship-list-and-its-unintended-consequencesYes….”The List”.
The one you’ve been working on for perhaps several years now. Both single men and single women have them.
Now I have to admit…the ladies seem to be more passionate and more robust with their “list”…but men have them too.

Let me start by saying that lists are good. This is not an attack on your sacred conscious or unconscious list (The unconscious list is an entirely different beast).

This is however, a reminder about the often forgotten, underestimated and perhaps even uncomfortable part of having a “list”…especially for believers.

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Sure You Are In a Ship…But is it YOUR Ideal RelationSHIP?

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You are seeing someone. (At least you kinda think so). You are at least happy to have what YOU define as some type of relationship. However…you KNOW deep down inside that the “relationship” you are in is not really what a relationship is supposed to be. Something is missing…your relationship feels wobbly…like your relationship vehicle is running on 3 tires instead of 4….that sorta thing.

Well, you are in some type of “ship”. But its not your ideal relationship. Which is it then?
You tell me. Here are a few to get you thinking:
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Life Changing Lessons from an Unusual Place – The Rio 2016 Olympics

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THIS ARTICLE IS NOT FOR THE FAINT HEARTED. It is for the hungry….the motivated…champions in the making. It is for those IN the game not in the stands. It is for those that want to get the best out of life. This is not the one you quickly scan. It’s the one you digest and act on.

Now…The Olympics were fun…but more importantly, they were loaded with insights and life lessons that are invaluable but can be easy to miss. I have done the work for you by putting together some of the most powerful life and faith lessons from that event. Understand these, and I have no doubt that the positive results for your life will follow. THIS IS AN ARTICLE YOU WILL WANT TO SAVE, SHARE AND COME BACK TO OVER AND OVER AGAIN….AND YOU WONT REGRET IT.

So get your life pen, open your inner eyes and dig in.
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