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If we understand how we got to the unfavorable destination we are in, then we can trace our steps back. If we know how we got to the favorable destination we are in, then we can decipher how to stay there or go even higher. As a certified Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner and Motivational Coach, I am always looking to helping people answer tough questions about relationships, leadership, communication, personal growth, motivation, and faith. You’re in for a good thing. I hope that you meet that better version of yourself here.

Your Relationship List and its Unintended Consequences

your-relationship-list-and-its-unintended-consequencesYes….”The List”.
The one you’ve been working on for perhaps several years now. Both single men and single women have them.
Now I have to admit…the ladies seem to be more passionate and more robust with their “list”…but men have them too.

Let me start by saying that lists are good. This is not an attack on your sacred conscious or unconscious list (The unconscious list is an entirely different beast).

This is however, a reminder about the often forgotten, underestimated and perhaps even uncomfortable part of having a “list”…especially for believers.

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Sure You Are In a Ship…But is it YOUR Ideal RelationSHIP?

You are seeing someone. (At least you kinda think so). You are at least happy to have what YOU define as some type of relationship. However…you KNOW deep down inside that the “relationship” you are in is not really what a relationship is supposed to be. Something is missing…your relationship feels wobbly…like your relationship vehicle is running on 3 tires instead of 4….that sorta thing.

Well, you are in some type of “ship”. But its not your ideal relationship. Which is it then?
You tell me. Here are a few to get you thinking:
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Life Changing Lessons from an Unusual Place – The Rio 2016 Olympics


THIS ARTICLE IS NOT FOR THE FAINT HEARTED. It is for the hungry….the motivated…champions in the making. It is for those IN the game not in the stands. It is for those that want to get the best out of life. This is not the one you quickly scan. It’s the one you digest and act on.

Now…The Olympics were fun…but more importantly, they were loaded with insights and life lessons that are invaluable but can be easy to miss. I have done the work for you by putting together some of the most powerful life and faith lessons from that event. Understand these, and I have no doubt that the positive results for your life will follow. THIS IS AN ARTICLE YOU WILL WANT TO SAVE, SHARE AND COME BACK TO OVER AND OVER AGAIN….AND YOU WONT REGRET IT.

So get your life pen, open your inner eyes and dig in.
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When Christian Men Are Asked About Their Spiritual Lives On Dates

How do Christian men take that? Some women say that some men are either offended, get uncomfortable and or even annoyed!

If the man is a Christian, why should he be uncomfortable when asked about his Christian life on a date?

It’s a legitimate question.

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That Moment When You Feel You’re Losing Deep Connection With God

That moment when you feel it

What’s the point of praying or worshiping right now? I don’t feel like it and I’m pretty sure that since I haven’t done either one the way I know I should lately, neither one will rise past my ceiling.

I recently had a conversation with a friend and we both started talking about this feeling.

I don’t know about you…but sometimes I feel like my faith is running on empty. Like if I prayed right then and then, God would call my bluff and shake his head at me.  You’ve probably been there before…where you feel like you are disconnected from God and somehow just going through the motions. Read more

Sexual Temptation – How Good Men Can Better Manage It

Sexual Temptation.This is just one of THOSE topics. We dont talk about it enough and when we do talk about it, men typically dont leave this conversation feeling empowered or encouraged. More like Guilty.

Sexual Temptation - How Good Men Can Better Manage ItIt’s like this awkward place no one wants to go…this box where we both (a) somehow assume it is a male problem and (b) somehow believe that Godly Christian men should be allergic to sexual temptation, and the ones who feel tempted are obviously not Christian enough. Read more