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The METAPHOR of a Relationship

A Metaphor is a representation of something else. It draws parallels between ideas and images in our mind… A Metaphor often gives deeper meaning to something. It gives a point of reference. It is an alternative representation of something.
We call our partners “the light of my life” not because that person is literally a walking flashlight but because that person brings joy and happiness.  We say the “apple of my eye” not because that person is a fruit lodged in the socket where your eyeball is supposed to be, but because they are beloved and held dear.” Nothing wrong with all these…they are just a representation of something deeper. Read more

The Flip Side…Valentine’s Day

I wonder… I really do. I wonder what it would be like to flip the table and switch roles on Valentine’s Day. You know…have guys get all the gifts and chocolate at the office, have the ladies go crazy trying to book a reservation at a fancy restaurant,or have the ladies freak out proposing to their man at dinner. What would it look like if men were bursting with curiosity about what their woman planned for V.day. How about having the ladies pick up the huge check at dinner. See what V.Day would look like if the roles were switched.Enjoy the video…it had me rolling.  Read more

Do YOUR Work!

I sat there riveted. I was hanging on to every word. It was as if he was calling me out and calling my bluff. “Any second now everyone is going to know he is talking about me” …I thought. It was that powerful. It was a few years ago and I was listening to Myles Munroe.  It’s in Miami, my friends are on the beach but I would have kicked myself if I missed the meeting…and I’m still recovering and I hope I never fully recover.
I didn’t get new information, I got new perspective. That perspective lit a fire under me and sparked a journey to connecting with a part of my higher self.
I am going to give that perspective to you. Read more

The IJUSTMETME Relationship Discovery Series

Over the last year, IJUSTMETME has grown to be more than just a simple blog. It’s fast becoming a resource for people. When Life, Relationship and Motivational coaching was added, people were positively impacted even more and now that events have been added to what we do, impact is greater than ever before. One area that people seem to need a lot of help in is relationships. That’s why I have created the IJUSTMETME Relationship Discovery Series. Read more

How to satisfy a Man

How do you satisfy a man? No really. Many women are really starting to get really frustrated about that question because they’ve been told that men are less complicated. Give him good food, good sex, don’t nag and you should have a happy man. They’ve been told that they themselves (women) are the ones that are more complicated.
Believe that, and you might have a man that sees home as the perfect corner eatery…where he can have his fill of stew and wild sex. He’ll like you. A lot. But he won’t be satisfied.
I never claim to know it all and not all these pointers will fit you, but understand them and you’ll certainly increase his level of satisfaction. FYI, if you haven’t already, you need to read the flip side “How to satisfy a Woman”. So here it is…
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The PETER Moment

It was day 3 or so of my Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner training. There are many more days to go but fireworks are already going off in my mind and the whole class is devouring all this new information like hungry wolves. The instructors are incredible. It’s great. I couldn’t wait for the training to be over so I could be licensed to help as many people as I can and help them live better lives.  As we began to wrap up for the day, something magnificent happened…something that humbled me. It was as if the forces that be knew exactly what I needed to hear at that moment…what I needed to see…to feel.

Peter happened. Read more