Category archive - Personal Development

New Life Resolutions Part 6 – You Got Slapped in the Face by Last Year. This is How You Evaluate and Slap Back to Make This Year Way Better (+ FREE Strategic Thinking Worksheet)

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Many people are still sore or in shock from the slapping they got from last year. I mean don’t get me wrong, many of us put up a pretty good fight but let me tell you…for most people I have spoken to, last year felt like someone punched them in the face, slapped them around and threw them into a roller coaster…unbuckled.

It kind of reminds me of that MTV show from the early 2000s called DIARY. It’s tag line was “You think you know but you have no idea”. That’s probably what last year felt like.
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I’ve Been Pregnant for 11 Months – Meet the Baby!

I have waited for this moment for months. So many dates have been set and then postponed. This journey has changed my life in so many ways and I couldn’t have envisioned a better end result.

People have been abuzz about this for the better part of this year and I am now able to reveal this baby.
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Sexual Temptation – How Good Men Can Better Manage It

Sexual Temptation.This is just one of THOSE topics. We dont talk about it enough and when we do talk about it, men typically dont leave this conversation feeling empowered or encouraged. More like Guilty.

Sexual Temptation - How Good Men Can Better Manage ItIt’s like this awkward place no one wants to go…this box where we both (a) somehow assume it is a male problem and (b) somehow believe that Godly Christian men should be allergic to sexual temptation, and the ones who feel tempted are obviously not Christian enough. Read more

Fear vs Caution in Life and Relationships

Fear vs Caution in Life and Relationships
Tony Robbins said it best. “Life is the dance between what we fear the most and what we want the most.”

I recently published an article on fear titled “Fear may be secretly destroying your life and relationships…See how and conquer it”. It explored the different ways fear creeps in and holds us back from our best relationships and lives.

Someone read the article and asked a very important question: “How does one balance between fear and being careful?”

As I thought about that, I started to get even deeper perspective on fear.

Here is what I have come to find out about the balance between fear and caution in life and relationships. Read more

Fear May Be SECRETLY Destroying Your Life and Relationships. See How and Conquer It!

Fear May Be SECRETLY Destroying Your Life and Relationships.

Fear is nasty. It doesn’t play fair with you and it is out to kill you. I don’t think I could have made that lighter. It uses every method available within itself to cripple you and make you miserable. It wants to make your relationships and your life suck and snuff the life out of you…..and that’s not even the scariest part…. Read more

New LIFE Resolutions Pt 5: You Might Fail This Year Unless You…

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There it is. I said it. You might fail again this year…and its true. It sucks but perhaps you need to hear that. Those goals you are setting for the new year…this is not their first rodeo. They’ve been around but have never been realized. Why? Oh I don’t know…a percentage of the reasons for failure in those areas may be legit. If that’s true for you? Kudos to you for trying again.

However, there are tons of people out there who ARE the reasons why they fail and you just might be one of them. There may be some things you need to fundamentally change not just about WHAT goals you set, but HOW you plan to execute. Your goals may be great but, there may be some fundamental inner-person-deep-mind paradigm shifts you need to make, in order to be successful.
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