Category archive - Relationships

She just might be more into you than you think- The subtle signs that men miss- Part 2

Woman- side glance-iStock_000000665776XSmallThere ARE some good men out there. Unfortunately many of them are not very good at telling when a woman is even somewhat interested in sparking a conversation or in actually starting the “dance” that may lead to a relationship. Read more

She just might be more into you than you think- The subtle signs that men miss- Part 1

Woman- side glance-iStock_000000665776XSmallHave you ever had that teacher that walked in on the first day of class and said “You already have an “A” in this class… your Job is to keep it that way till the end of the class”. Well, it’s a very similar situation with the ladies. Sorry ladies…I’m about to leak some secrets ….but not to worry. It’s for a good cause. Many good men out there could use the help. Read more

The METAPHOR of a Relationship

A Metaphor is a representation of something else. It draws parallels between ideas and images in our mind… A Metaphor often gives deeper meaning to something. It gives a point of reference. It is an alternative representation of something.
We call our partners “the light of my life” not because that person is literally a walking flashlight but because that person brings joy and happiness.  We say the “apple of my eye” not because that person is a fruit lodged in the socket where your eyeball is supposed to be, but because they are beloved and held dear.” Nothing wrong with all these…they are just a representation of something deeper. Read more

The Flip Side…Valentine’s Day

I wonder… I really do. I wonder what it would be like to flip the table and switch roles on Valentine’s Day. You know…have guys get all the gifts and chocolate at the office, have the ladies go crazy trying to book a reservation at a fancy restaurant,or have the ladies freak out proposing to their man at dinner. What would it look like if men were bursting with curiosity about what their woman planned for How about having the ladies pick up the huge check at dinner. See what V.Day would look like if the roles were switched.Enjoy the video…it had me rolling.  Read more

How to satisfy a Man

How do you satisfy a man? No really. Many women are really starting to get really frustrated about that question because they’ve been told that men are less complicated. Give him good food, good sex, don’t nag and you should have a happy man. They’ve been told that they themselves (women) are the ones that are more complicated.
Believe that, and you might have a man that sees home as the perfect corner eatery…where he can have his fill of stew and wild sex. He’ll like you. A lot. But he won’t be satisfied.
I never claim to know it all and not all these pointers will fit you, but understand them and you’ll certainly increase his level of satisfaction. FYI, if you haven’t already, you need to read the flip side “How to satisfy a Woman”. So here it is…
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I know… but that’s not enough : A reader’s thoughts

I have never done this before. I mean I read EVERY…yes EVERY comment that posts on the blog from readers because I am still eager to learn and you…yes…you readers teach me with your responses. Many readers write me “off record” and some are my life/motivational coaching clients…but I have never done this before….responding to a reader’s comment and using that response as the basis of a post. However, this initially off-record email I got was so directly related to my thoughts on the epilogue for the “I know…but that’s not enough” series that I feel this is the best way to do this. So I contacted her and got her permission to do so. You are reading this because she said yes. We will call her “X”… Read more