Category archive - Relationships

Sure You Are In a Ship…But is it YOUR Ideal RelationSHIP?

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You are seeing someone. (At least you kinda think so). You are at least happy to have what YOU define as some type of relationship. However…you KNOW deep down inside that the “relationship” you are in is not really what a relationship is supposed to be. Something is missing…your relationship feels wobbly…like your relationship vehicle is running on 3 tires instead of 4….that sorta thing.

Well, you are in some type of “ship”. But its not your ideal relationship. Which is it then?
You tell me. Here are a few to get you thinking:
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When Christian Men Are Asked About Their Spiritual Lives On Dates

How do Christian men take that? Some women say that some men are either offended, get uncomfortable and or even annoyed!

If the man is a Christian, why should he be uncomfortable when asked about his Christian life on a date?

It’s a legitimate question.

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Sexual Temptation – How Good Men Can Better Manage It

Sexual Temptation.This is just one of THOSE topics. We dont talk about it enough and when we do talk about it, men typically dont leave this conversation feeling empowered or encouraged. More like Guilty.

Sexual Temptation - How Good Men Can Better Manage ItIt’s like this awkward place no one wants to go…this box where we both (a) somehow assume it is a male problem and (b) somehow believe that Godly Christian men should be allergic to sexual temptation, and the ones who feel tempted are obviously not Christian enough. Read more

Why Some Men Take A While To Propose…or Don’t At All

Yes. I am going to go there. Why? Because the issue of timing, proposal, and “taking things to the next level” is one of the most frustrating and confusing aspects of dating.

Both men and women see this as a “very touchy” issue. Women are frustrated because they think men just stall for no good reason and Men are frustrated because they feel the pressure to propose and their reasons for waiting never seem to be good enough.

Why some men take a while to propose...or dont at all

Women are frustrated because it just seems so logical and easy to “take it to the next level”, and Men are frustrated because they cant seem to properly articulate the deeper reasons why “popping the question” is not as easy as it sounds.

It’s a mess. Read more

(Part 2) AMAZING Relationship Advantages Men Provide (Probably Better Than Women) At The START Of A Relationship

PT 2 - Some AMAZING relationship advantages men provide (Probably better than women) at the START of a relationship

Part 1 dealt with the first few. This is another set of critical behaviors and thought processes that men bring to a relationship AT THE START that are just incredible advantages for the relationship.

I know how this sounds already. Men…better at something that has to do with relationships? What?

Again, it doesn’t mean that men are better AT relationships (not even a little bit) but GOING IN…at the start,  the mentality most men come in with could really help set the foundation for a healthy relationship. Read more

Some AMAZING Relationship Advantages Men Provide (Probably Better Than Women) At The START Of A Relationship

Some AMAZING relationship advantages men provide (Probably better than women) at the START of a relationship
Ok…I know how this sounds. Especially for some ladies reading this. I know several bells are ringing in some women’s minds right now. “Yea right…what advantages could men possibly offer to relationships even close to women…let alone better than women”? Funny thing is…we see these things but we often see these male behaviors and thought processes as “just biological or as just part of the game”. As true as that is many times, I think they are a bit deeper than that.  Read more