Category archive - Thought Provoking

How To Break Up…Without Breaking The Person

How to break up without breaking the person

A break up can make or break a person. Literally. It can affect their world view…it can affect how they see people and how they navigate through life. What’s worse is that the longer and more serious the relationship was, the worse the negative effects can be if the breakup is not done right.  Read more

Romance Might Just be Overrated… And Why That’s Ok

ROMANCE_FINAL-ManturityMarried folks (especially men) need to pay CLOSE ATTENTION to this lurking danger that can go unnoticed and if it’s not caught quickly, those great intentions of “being a romantic husband” may become the reasons why a marriage fails in the eyes of God.This is a critical article for both married folks and for unmarried folks as well.  Read more

Alternate Endings: The story of our lives

People Grid-PhotoGrid_1403019703991Remember that final scene from the movie Pretty Woman? Where Richard Gere pulls up in that white limousine with flowers in hand like the knight in shining armor? Julia Roberts hears the beeping horn, pokes her head through the window to see him downstairs. He proceeds to climb the ladder on the side of her tower (apartment) and with orchestral music in the background; they proceed to give each other the kiss of life right there on that ladder. Remember that???? (Julia Roberts literally put our hearts in her pocket from that movie.) Read more

Don’t Pre-Qualify your lead – Pt 2 (The effects on you and the other person)

Quote - Instagram -IMG_20140603_090744So last week, I published Don’t Pre-Qualify your lead. Pt 1… A good read for everyone but a MUST READ for singles.  If you have not read it, I suggest you do before you continue because while you will get a lot from this post, I have purposefully written this particular post as a continuation piece so I promise that you will get even more from it if you just stop right now, right here, click the link and start by reading Part 1 first. Read more

Don’t Pre-Qualify your lead

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If you have ever worked in sales for more than a month and received training, you have probably heard this before. Don’t pre-qualify your lead.

What exactly is a lead? What does it mean to pre-qualify a lead? And what the heck does that have to do with relationships? Read more

You may need one…NOW

IJMm-app-icon-logoIt’s an interesting place. Shortly after you get there, they tell you to take off your clothes, they give you something more “appropriate” to wear and show you to a private room where they ask you to lay down on the bed and wait. Sometimes there is music and sometimes there is not. The bed is just ok but not so comfortable. Shortly after, someone walks in, looks at you and smiles as they take a quick glance at your body. You manage to smile as you wonder what will happen to your body. Read more