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If we understand how we got to the unfavorable destination we are in, then we can trace our steps back. If we know how we got to the favorable destination we are in, then we can decipher how to stay there or go even higher. As a certified Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner and Motivational Coach, I am always looking to helping people answer tough questions about relationships, leadership, communication, personal growth, motivation, and faith. You’re in for a good thing. I hope that you meet that better version of yourself here.

She just might be more into you than you think- The subtle signs that men miss- Part 2

Woman- side glance-iStock_000000665776XSmallThere ARE some good men out there. Unfortunately many of them are not very good at telling when a woman is even somewhat interested in sparking a conversation or in actually starting the “dance” that may lead to a relationship. Read more

She just might be more into you than you think- The subtle signs that men miss- Part 1

Woman- side glance-iStock_000000665776XSmallHave you ever had that teacher that walked in on the first day of class and said “You already have an “A” in this class… your Job is to keep it that way till the end of the class”. Well, it’s a very similar situation with the ladies. Sorry ladies…I’m about to leak some secrets ….but not to worry. It’s for a good cause. Many good men out there could use the help. Read more

The METAPHOR of a Relationship

A Metaphor is a representation of something else. It draws parallels between ideas and images in our mind… A Metaphor often gives deeper meaning to something. It gives a point of reference. It is an alternative representation of something.
We call our partners “the light of my life” not because that person is literally a walking flashlight but because that person brings joy and happiness.  We say the “apple of my eye” not because that person is a fruit lodged in the socket where your eyeball is supposed to be, but because they are beloved and held dear.” Nothing wrong with all these…they are just a representation of something deeper. Read more

The Flip Side…Valentine’s Day

I wonder… I really do. I wonder what it would be like to flip the table and switch roles on Valentine’s Day. You know…have guys get all the gifts and chocolate at the office, have the ladies go crazy trying to book a reservation at a fancy restaurant,or have the ladies freak out proposing to their man at dinner. What would it look like if men were bursting with curiosity about what their woman planned for V.day. How about having the ladies pick up the huge check at dinner. See what V.Day would look like if the roles were switched.Enjoy the video…it had me rolling.  Read more

Do YOUR Work!

I sat there riveted. I was hanging on to every word. It was as if he was calling me out and calling my bluff. “Any second now everyone is going to know he is talking about me” …I thought. It was that powerful. It was a few years ago and I was listening to Myles Munroe.  It’s in Miami, my friends are on the beach but I would have kicked myself if I missed the meeting…and I’m still recovering and I hope I never fully recover.
I didn’t get new information, I got new perspective. That perspective lit a fire under me and sparked a journey to connecting with a part of my higher self.
I am going to give that perspective to you. Read more

The IJUSTMETME Relationship Discovery Series

Over the last year, IJUSTMETME has grown to be more than just a simple blog. It’s fast becoming a resource for people. When Life, Relationship and Motivational coaching was added, people were positively impacted even more and now that events have been added to what we do, impact is greater than ever before. One area that people seem to need a lot of help in is relationships. That’s why I have created the IJUSTMETME Relationship Discovery Series. Read more