Monthly archive - October 2014

The Pink Hill Moment…have you had one lately?

Even in your chaotic-“seemingly “uneventful life, you can experience a taste of Heaven.

It had been a long day. This was my fourth city in a 5 city/5 day swing on business. I was driving from Greenville, North Carolina to Wilmington, North Carolina. I entered a certain town and let me tell you. It didn’t tickle my fancy.

It felt like there was nothing and no one there. It was like those isolated towns we see in movies with probably one mechanic, no grocery store, barely a gas station and buildings that looked like they were 200 years old. I barely saw a human being.

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MEN, what happens when SHE makes more money? How Men make it an Issue

I recently wrote the article “Joint v.s Separate accounts – The underlying relationship issues we are not talking about” (READ IT!) that brought about some deep questions/responses from my readers both on and offline and while I have answered as many of them as I can, one question seems to come up a lot and that is “What happens when the woman makes more or all of the income in a relationship or marriage?

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Ask most men and they will tell you that they prefer to make more money than their wives and that’s somewhat natural. For the ladies reading this, let me say very quickly that this is not because all men want to suppress you or anything like that but I think that most men and especially good men out there simply want to have the means to take care of you and provide for you…because we tend to measure our self-worth by how well we can take care of you. Isn’t that great? Isn’t that a good thing? Read on…
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