About Tobi Atte


IMG_7231So…who is behind IJUSTMETME? Tobi. Yup. Me. I was born and raised in Nigeria, West Africa and I’ve wanted to do this since I was like 15…I know. Wild. I’ve always had an interest in knowing “why” and perhaps even more importantly “HOW” we do what we do as people. My interest in that by default, expands to the thought process that if we know “why and how” we do what we do, we can change. We can be better.
If we understand how we got to the unfavorable destination we are in, then we can trace our steps back. If we know how we got to the favorable destination we are in, then we can decipher how to stay there or go even higher.

As a certified Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner and Motivational Coach, I am always looking to helping people answer tough questions about relationships, leadership, communication, personal growth, motivation, and faith.

You’re in for a good thing. I hope that you meet that better version of yourself here.


9 Reasons (You may not know) why Christian single ladies can’t find their Boaz, David or Joseph

11 Reasons (You may not know) why Christian single men can’t find their Ruth, Esther or Mary

-City lights from a plane
-You’re under arrest
-Owning a classic
-Husbands: 10 things to make your wife go googoogaga over you (without spending money)
-How to satisfy a Man
-How to satisfy a Woman
-Why do people in abusive relationships stay?

-The one you thought you forgot
-Life and Faith lessons from an unexpected place: Superbowl XLVIII 2014

-How do you smell?
-New Life Resolutions: Why personal goals and resolutions fail and what you should do about it
-How to give constructive criticism
-How to receive constructive criticism
-Do your work!

Career Growth
-How to become indispensable at work (maybe even promoted) Pt 1
-How to become indispensable at work (maybe even promoted) Pt 2

-Seizure at the light

You can contact me via the simple contact form below (Comes straight to me email), or via Facebook HERE or via Twitter HERE. You can/should also watch/Subscribe to my YouTube channel HERE:

You’re in for a good thing. I hope that you meet that better version of yourself here.

For more information on my expertise or to book me for speaking engagements, click HERE

Happy growing
Oh and yea… take a look at one more thing that is close to my heart: www.barnabian.org

Tobi A.


  • Ayodeji

    awesome blog Tobi

  • Lara Labinjo

    I love it!!!! Keep it coming!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    The Lord is ur strength

  • Moyo

    Very insightful; very good posts so far as well… Will be looking 4ward to seeing more!


  • Tilda

    Awesome work! You have a nice way of using words and you definitely had and kept my attention on the blog. May the Lord make that fountain of wisdom continually flow in your life in Jesus name. Amen!

  • mary

    great work! nice blog.

  • Maribel

    What a great blog site! Congratulations and keep up the good work! Love the picture…Maribel

  • Edwin “E-Dub”

    Bro its “BETTER THAN GR8” ….. 😉 … u have a natural talent…. and of course the skills to supplement it….

  • Sick&TiredofDoubleStandards!

    What do you know, am as impressed as i thought id be from your write up on Bella Naija…. something to keep me going for the rest of my evening! Kudos man, and continue the hard work…..

  • yoola

    lovely blog, keep it up

    • ijustmetme

      Thanks a bunch!

  • Dr.femi lawani

    Tobi…words cannot be adequate enough to express my pride and satisfaction with the creative and bold step you have initiated.I am not surprised by your exploits because I know the very fine stock from which you are made.You have a very strong foundation with an immensely rich culture and heritage.The sky is just the stepping stone.bravo!!!

    • ijustmetme

      Wow Femi. Iam speechless. Thank you so much for your kind words! The feeling is mutual. You are a fantastic person as well. I think u just made my day!

  • Bosco! keep up the good work men. I just read your post at Bella Naija, good stuff!
    CCI boy representing!

  • Yetunde

    Beautiful writing. I knew you’ve always had it in you!

  • Olaniyi AlliBalogun

    I always knew you had it in you. Keep up the great work.

  • Bosede Oladoyinbo

    Tobi, I am really awed at your site/blog. Knew you as a neighbor in those years but never knew what was in you. I am truly proud of you. Wishing you God’s continual favor in your marriage and more of God’s grace in your ministry.

    • ijustmetme

      Thank you so very much!


    Hello my brother please kindly link me up on how i can get your tapes or podcast, you are doing a great job and we are proud of doing the job out there, you are a true son of your father keep it up boy. bb-2158167E

  • Olufunke Atte

    seems very interesting, Atte is a rare name, so when I saw the name just had to check out the sight…..lovely

  • Oluwadamilare Adeoye

    Thank you sir for the free ebook, i have downloaded mine and i am looking forward to be imparted through this material. Everything that God put together to make your relationship graduate into hitch-free marriage will answer for me this season and you will be among who will celebrate with me soon. Thanks and god bless you sir.