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Perspective – Part 3: From Isolation to Incubation (The difference makes all the difference)

This thought has mattered more and more over the last few months.
remains so important the understand the difference, understand what happens in incubation…to understand what that means for you, and understand how to live in this “season” of what seems to be isolation in a way that you come out better on the other side.
Because it’s not too late for that.
Because the difference makes all the difference.
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Perspective – Part 2: The Anointing of Joseph and the Grace of Samson (What you need to think and pray about these days)

Perspective during these times
You are going to fall into one of these two buckets and I need to tell you…either one you fall into requires you to REALLY think of a few things and pray about a couple of things. It doesn’t matter what level of faith you’re at.
Speaking of critical, it is important for you to start reading this piece having established ONE MAJOR POINT: You are fundamentally and inherently more powerful than you have been acting. Now it’s time to live in that power a little bit more than you have been living. Ok….let’s get into it.
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Perspective – Part 1: Self talk (What you need to think and pray about these days)

This is part of a series focused on helping us have the right perspective during these “Covid-19” times. It’s about the importance of being in a productive, empowering, and positive state of mind, not just to make it through these times, but to actually thrive. This is part 1  and its “Self talk” and its a perspective about it that you may not have thought about…
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This New Year, Be the OLD You – New Life Resolutions Pt. 9

So here we are again. The 9th year of the New Life Resolutions series that deals with making powerful, sustainable, life long choices as opposed to fad New Years Resolutions.

Every year, it is one of the most important posts I write and this year, it is no different…but it might be the most counter intuitive to date. How so?

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Your “Other” Types of Relationships That Could Make or Break Your Love Relationship or Marriage (and how to deal with them)

So you start a new relationship…or get married and you tell yourselves that you are going to focus on each other. You both make a commitment to make each other the most important thing. That’s cute. Make no mistake though…there are “other” relationships you are bringing into this new fire love relationship, and these other types of relationships could make or break your love relationship (or marriage).

You have to properly manage these other relationships or else this relationship will suffer:

They are:

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Your life is begging for this…NOW

You’re talented but restless
You’re made for more but confused 
You have dreams but no vision
You need to figure out the WHEN, WHAT, WHERE, HOW, WHO…

Everyone has dreams. Everyone has at least a vague vision for their
lives…but not everyone has clarity or the life structure to make that vision a reality

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