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ijustmetme

Your life is begging for this…NOW

You’re talented but restless
 
You’re made for more but confused 
 
You have dreams but no vision
 
You need to figure out the WHEN, WHAT, WHERE, HOW, WHO…

Everyone has dreams. Everyone has at least a vague vision for their
lives…but not everyone has clarity or the life structure to make that vision a reality

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Life’s Appointments (Your Wake Up Call)

I heard two quotes that shook me.

“Wherever you find yourself, at some point in time, you made an appointment to be there” ~ Unknown

We are all self made…but only the wealthy all admit it. ~ Earl Nightingale

Right away, questions flooded my mind. You know…the ones you know you need to ask but don’t really want to hear the answer to.
 
And I want you to ask yourself those same questions…
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He Changed – After You Showed Interest

So there you were…minding your business. No Ads on your forehead saying you were looking for a man. (I mean…you were looking…but there was no ads involved)
 
Then he came.,.and started doing the dance and throwing bright peacock colors in your face, and somehow got your heart beating a little faster.
 
So…you brought out your cup and showed interest in his Kool-aid. 
Then…it all changed. 
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She Changed – After You Showed Interest

One of the ways I know I need to write on a topic is when I suddenly start getting questions around a theme or issue…and this is one of them. Furthermore, I felt urgency about this one because:
a) The questions were from Men…specifically, young men that were deeply interested in being good men and good husbands. (Ladies…. these men do exist and If you keep telling yourself they don’t you wont find them. I digress….)
b) Men typically are not typically wired to reach out for help from other men especially on matters of the heart.

So…here is the theme of questions I was getting:

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Relationships and Marriages at the Door


Relationships are like doors…and doors are interesting. (Yea..doors)

Because doors are in the same breath the entrance and the exit. Doors are at the same time the entrance to something amazing and the exit from something amazing. Yet doors could be (still at the same time as all the above) an entrance into something terrible yet the exit from something terrible.

I guess it all depends on who is going through the door and what they believe is on the other side.

When you really think about it, the start and the functioning of a relationship/marriage are like two people at the door.
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This Thing is Everything – New Life Resolutions Pt 8


At the start of every year, I publish a post in the New Life Resolutions series… Its one of the most important posts of any year. I have done this for the past 7 years and the idea behind the series was born out of a response to (and as an alternative for) New Year Resolutions. I just knew there had to be a better way to think about that.
I like how I penned it down in Part 3: The Paradigm Shift on Resolutions

“If it is really worth fighting to change that thing this year,
it should really be worth maintaining that change every year.”
Tobi Atte

I have spent the last 7 years eager to help people get the paradigm shift that will move them harder and faster towards their goals in life.
This year is a little different. I am not just eager. I am kinda desperate.

And as I have thought about this more and more, I have come to a major conclusion that the rest of this post will be about. Here it is:
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