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How to receive CONSTRUCTIVE criticism

IJMm-app-icon-logoDon’t let the title fool you. Normally, the fact that you are receiving something means that it is being given and under normal circumstances, we cannot alter what is being given because well, it’s being given. We typically just accept what we are given and then maybe change it later…after we have received. Rarely do we control the process by which we receive something. I am challenging that today and you are probably going to have a paradigm shift by the time you finish reading this. Read more

Featuring on Love Lounge on EbonyLife TV

EbonyLife FeatureHello All,First of all, I need to thank you all for your support and your stories and for sharing what you read and see here with others.That said, I wanted to humbly let you know about some great news! I am currently featuring on the brand new show “Love Lounge” on the brand new TV Network “EbonyLife TV” in Nigeria. Read more

Paintings, Instagram and Mirrors

Bill_Clinton_-_Presidential_portraitVisit a presidential library in the U.S and you will see the great history of presidential portraits that adorn the walls. They capture these great men in different emotions and poses but one thing is consistent. …they all look for the most part…presidential, and it’s not too much to assume that if the president of the greatest country in the world does not like the depiction, he can say…let’s do it over. Sound familiar? Read more

Seizure at the light

IJMm-app-icon-logoI had never seen anything like that before. The right side of his mouth looked like it was stretching towards his right ear. The veins on his neck were elevated and I just sat there…in my car…watching in a daze. The traffic light turned green but I couldn’t get my foot to push the pedal.
As I approached that light, I saw him towards my right at the street corner. White sleeveless undershirt and sky blue oversized basketball shorts. Something about him fixed my eyes as I approached the light. When I got to the light, I finally saw what was going on. Read more

IJUSTMETME – Digging for Gold Event

video imageTake a look at this short video. Digging for Gold is a powerful event hosted by IJUSTMETME and Tobi Atte. Its about understanding attraction, where it fits in the context of a christian relationship. It will also provide some insight into what it means to be prepared for a Godly marriage, how to separate attraction from God’s peace and much more.
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DFG-FULL-FLYER-webA powerful event that will dig deeper into the issue of attraction and ultimately confirmation.
-How do I separate my sense of “peace” from God’s “confirmation?
-How does attraction actually happen in my head?
-People don’t usually “prepare” for attraction. What exactly do i do when i feel it..before i get confirmation?
-Great Q/A sessions
-Great performances Read more