Category archive - Thought Provoking


No. That is not a typo. This post does not have a title. The content is way too deep and way too subjective. In fact…YOU are going to give this post your own title…or titles. This post is not to entertain you…it is to make to think…to make you change if you need to.

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Unknown Artist

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How To Be There For Someone Going Through A Rough Time

How To Be There For Someone GoingAt one point or the other, someone you care about is going to be in pain or discomfort. Emotionally, spiritually, physically, mentally, financially…it’s inevitable. It’s bound to happen and yet, many of us are totally ill equipped to be there for people who need us the most in the way that matters the most.

This is no small problem. It’s the reason why relationships of all kinds end. Businesses lose customers, churches lose members, people break up, marriages end, people get fired, people quit jobs, and siblings fight. Pain Management.   Read more

How To Break Up…Without Breaking The Person

How to break up without breaking the person

A break up can make or break a person. Literally. It can affect their world view…it can affect how they see people and how they navigate through life. What’s worse is that the longer and more serious the relationship was, the worse the negative effects can be if the breakup is not done right.  Read more

Romance Might Just be Overrated… And Why That’s Ok

ROMANCE_FINAL-ManturityMarried folks (especially men) need to pay CLOSE ATTENTION to this lurking danger that can go unnoticed and if it’s not caught quickly, those great intentions of “being a romantic husband” may become the reasons why a marriage fails in the eyes of God.This is a critical article for both married folks and for unmarried folks as well.  Read more

Alternate Endings: The story of our lives

People Grid-PhotoGrid_1403019703991Remember that final scene from the movie Pretty Woman? Where Richard Gere pulls up in that white limousine with flowers in hand like the knight in shining armor? Julia Roberts hears the beeping horn, pokes her head through the window to see him downstairs. He proceeds to climb the ladder on the side of her tower (apartment) and with orchestral music in the background; they proceed to give each other the kiss of life right there on that ladder. Remember that???? (Julia Roberts literally put our hearts in her pocket from that movie.) Read more

Don’t Pre-Qualify your lead – Pt 2 (The effects on you and the other person)

Quote - Instagram -IMG_20140603_090744So last week, I published Don’t Pre-Qualify your lead. Pt 1… A good read for everyone but a MUST READ for singles.  If you have not read it, I suggest you do before you continue because while you will get a lot from this post, I have purposefully written this particular post as a continuation piece so I promise that you will get even more from it if you just stop right now, right here, click the link and start by reading Part 1 first. Read more