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11 Reasons (you may not know) Why Single Christian Men Can’t Find Their Ruth, Esther or Mary

I recently wrote the “Women’s” version of this article and it resonated with a lot of people. I think that happened because the information was presented with fresh perspectives that struck a nerve.  If you haven’t read it yet, don’t be left out. Read it HERE: 9 reasons (you may not know) why Christian single ladies can’t find their Boaz, David or Joseph Young African man in contemplation -iStock_000006274190XSmall So here is the Men’s version. The flip side. Before I get into this though, I want to get a few things out of the way. Read more

9 reasons (you may not know) why Christian single ladies can’t find their Boaz, David or Joseph

I’ve gotten a lot of one-on-one questions about this from BOTH MEN AND WOMEN and I figured it was time to write about it. Before I write another line though, it’s important that I say a few things and get some things out of the way.

A. This article is mainly for mature Christian single women. Mature. Christian. Women. Why? Because Girls might get offended or not understand but a mature Christian woman will probably get it and take the knowledge.

Waiting

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You may need one…NOW

IJMm-app-icon-logoIt’s an interesting place. Shortly after you get there, they tell you to take off your clothes, they give you something more “appropriate” to wear and show you to a private room where they ask you to lay down on the bed and wait. Sometimes there is music and sometimes there is not. The bed is just ok but not so comfortable. Shortly after, someone walks in, looks at you and smiles as they take a quick glance at your body. You manage to smile as you wonder what will happen to your body. Read more

NO I DON’T just accept you for who you are: Acceptance vs. Commitment

Acceptance vs. Commitment - textgram_1399304043People confuse acceptance and commitment.  They say that when you love someone, you accept them for who they are. While many elements of that is true, something is missing.
As you make relationship decisions in different areas of your life, it’s important to know the different between acceptance and commitment.Acceptance is like doing a favor for another, and favors don’t last for the long haul, neither does it make the recipient better because the recipient is already making peace with the fact that they cannot change or be much better, that’s why they are being “accepted”. Read more

HUSBANDS: (Pt 2)10 things to do to make your wife go GOOGOOGAGA over you (without spending money)

Happy Woman - iStock_000017408587XSmallOk…so a few weeks ago, ijustmetme readers got the first 5 tips on how to make your wife go googoogaga over you without spending money. Read it HERE. Well, word got to the awesome folks at Bella Naija (www.bellanaija.com) and I was happy to send this next installment to them to publish first before it hit ijustmetme.
So…for those that missed the initial release on BN a few days ago, here you go. Read more

How to receive CONSTRUCTIVE criticism

IJMm-app-icon-logoDon’t let the title fool you. Normally, the fact that you are receiving something means that it is being given and under normal circumstances, we cannot alter what is being given because well, it’s being given. We typically just accept what we are given and then maybe change it later…after we have received. Rarely do we control the process by which we receive something. I am challenging that today and you are probably going to have a paradigm shift by the time you finish reading this. Read more