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If we understand how we got to the unfavorable destination we are in, then we can trace our steps back. If we know how we got to the favorable destination we are in, then we can decipher how to stay there or go even higher. As a certified Neuro Linguistic Programming Practitioner and Motivational Coach, I am always looking to helping people answer tough questions about relationships, leadership, communication, personal growth, motivation, and faith. You’re in for a good thing. I hope that you meet that better version of yourself here.

This New Year, Be the OLD You – New Life Resolutions Pt. 9

So here we are again. The 9th year of the New Life Resolutions series that deals with making powerful, sustainable, life long choices as opposed to fad New Years Resolutions.

Every year, it is one of the most important posts I write and this year, it is no different…but it might be the most counter intuitive to date. How so?

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Your “Other” Types of Relationships That Could Make or Break Your Love Relationship or Marriage (and how to deal with them)

So you start a new relationship…or get married and you tell yourselves that you are going to focus on each other. You both make a commitment to make each other the most important thing. That’s cute. Make no mistake though…there are “other” relationships you are bringing into this new fire love relationship, and these other types of relationships could make or break your love relationship (or marriage).

You have to properly manage these other relationships or else this relationship will suffer:

They are:

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Your life is begging for this…NOW

You’re talented but restless
 
You’re made for more but confused 
 
You have dreams but no vision
 
You need to figure out the WHEN, WHAT, WHERE, HOW, WHO…

Everyone has dreams. Everyone has at least a vague vision for their
lives…but not everyone has clarity or the life structure to make that vision a reality

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Life’s Appointments (Your Wake Up Call)

I heard two quotes that shook me.

“Wherever you find yourself, at some point in time, you made an appointment to be there” ~ Unknown

We are all self made…but only the wealthy all admit it. ~ Earl Nightingale

Right away, questions flooded my mind. You know…the ones you know you need to ask but don’t really want to hear the answer to.
 
And I want you to ask yourself those same questions…
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He Changed – After You Showed Interest

So there you were…minding your business. No Ads on your forehead saying you were looking for a man. (I mean…you were looking…but there was no ads involved)
 
Then he came.,.and started doing the dance and throwing bright peacock colors in your face, and somehow got your heart beating a little faster.
 
So…you brought out your cup and showed interest in his Kool-aid. 
Then…it all changed. 
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She Changed – After You Showed Interest

One of the ways I know I need to write on a topic is when I suddenly start getting questions around a theme or issue…and this is one of them. Furthermore, I felt urgency about this one because:
a) The questions were from Men…specifically, young men that were deeply interested in being good men and good husbands. (Ladies…. these men do exist and If you keep telling yourself they don’t you wont find them. I digress….)
b) Men typically are not typically wired to reach out for help from other men especially on matters of the heart.

So…here is the theme of questions I was getting:

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